How To Win Him Back

Almost everyone has gone through a relationship break up at one point in their lives. Actually, if there was a school on how to win people back most of us would be students. Sometimes, people shake it off and move on with their lives. There are however a few instances when women realize that their ex boyfriend was the best they had and they have lost him. If you are in this position, do not be afraid.

Here are few ways on how to win him back

Give him space
This is the unwritten rule. Do not become clingy or needy. After a breakup, you need to give him his space and time so that he can sort out his feelings towards you. Avoid any contact with him; from emails, phone calls, texts or face to face meetings. This takes self discipline. Giving him his space is important in winning him over for two reasons. First, it shows him that you respect his decision. Secondly, it gives you time to assess yourself and make any personal improvements that could have been the cause of the break up. Breaking off contact also shows that you are not pressuring him anymore. If he does not feel pressure from you, it is likely that he will be drawn back to you.

Show him that you have moved on
This is not as difficult as it may sound. Get busy living your life. Go out with family and friends. Due to the evolution of the social networks, it is quite easy for people to monitor other people’s activities. Take and post pictures of you and your friends hanging out on your pages. Tag all your friends and comment of how much fun you had. He will wonder why you are not mourning the break up and it will make him want you more. If you hear that he has someone new, wish him well. This shows him that you are mature and you want nothing but the best for him. Additionally, men want something they cant have and when he thinks that you are losing interest, he will want you back. If you try to show him that you are fine on your own, he will try to prove to you that you are not.

Keep your feelings to yourself
Do not recruit other people in the quest to win him back. It may look like a good idea to ask his friends and family to try and convince him to give you a second chance. This is a bad idea. When a man feels that his ex shared details of the break up with others, he resents her for good. Act mature and keep your feelings to yourself. When a mutual friend asks about the break up, just smile and say that everything is okay. If this information gets back to him, he will definitely be impressed about your composure.

Look and stay Beautiful
The following weeks after a break up could be the most difficult ones. It is good to keep your mind occupied by doing the things you love. You can pick a new hobby or travel to a new city. Your ex will wonder what has been keeping you busy. Even though you feel desperate deep inside, improve how you look and embrace the spirit you had before. Ensure that each day you look more beautiful. In case you bump into him, he will not think you are miserable. Your beauty will also draw him back to you.

Accept your faults
A break up could be either being your fault or his. When you decide to talk about it, do not play the blame game. Be the mature person and accept your mistakes. Determine what you might have done that could have hurt him. Apologize and promise not to do it again.

Make him work
When he finally decides to call, which he will, do not fall for the first advance he makes. To win him back and keep him takes patience. Make sure that the initial conversations are reserved and private. Do not let him come over to your place. Men love a good chase. For him to value you after you are back together, you will have to make him work hard for it. Do not let him back until he has proven that he is back to stay. Learning how to win him back is a process, but using the right approach, you will not only win him back, but will have him stay for good.

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