I want my Ex Back; 4 Easy Steps To Get Him Back

Everyone wishes to find true love at some point in their lives. The sense of belonging and knowing that you’re genuinely loved by someone is empowering and at the same time comforting. However, there are many ups and downs in relationships and we at times end things too quickly then realize that we made a mistake after the damage is done. There always will come along frogs that you have to dismiss before turning one into your prince. What happens when you let your to be prince go before he completely turns? The guilt in knowing that you let go of someone you really love too quickly can be tormenting. This can only call for one action, get your ex back.

1. Meet up
Clarity comes around after a few days when it sinks in that you guys broke up. It is human nature to make mistakes and this can only be corrected if you do the right thing. If all you can think about is “i want my ex back” it might be because you’re in the initial stages of denial and grief. If after some time you still feel this way then we need to get going. Your ex is likely to have left an item or two of his at your place. This is perfect ground for you guys to meet up. It is common courtesy to give them back but also a good excuse to see him again. However do not rush into this as chances are he’s still angry or determined to move on. Give it sometime and after you’re sure he wouldn’t mind to see you again, make the move. Call him and set up a meeting, doll up, wear your “i still value you” look then head over to the venue. Alternatively, you could invite him over to your place. This is actually better as you’ll be in your comfort zone and have it all planned out. At this point, you would be able to tell if he also wants you back or not.

2. Keep in touch
The next step to the “i want my ex back” quest is to keep in touch with him afterwards. The first encounter should be enough to open this door wide open once again. After inviting him to your place, be cordial and nice enough to have him want to keep you around in his life. Follow this through with some phone calls every now and then and eventually graduate to hanging out again. Do not act like a girlfriend all this while. Be cool and friendly. Your kindness and composure is what will make him miss you and hopefully want to rekindle your love.

3. Let life continue as before in a non creepy way
At this point, you obviously kind of have him back in your life so why not continue living it like before? You should however tread carefully so as not to come off as creepy and obsessed. Invite him for events like gala, weddings and night outs. This will give you enough time to watch him closely for a sign that he wants to be around you too.

4. Open up
If you drag this process longer than it should then you will lose him to another woman. Men cannot keep focus on one thing long enough. When the time is right, say 3-4 weeks, drop the bomb. Invite him over to your place once more or ask him to meet you at a fancy restaurant. At this point he is likely to have shown some signs of wanting you back as well hence reducing chances of awkwardness and rejection. Find some nice words that will lure him in further. This is no time to point out his mistakes and how he was wrong. Admit you made a mistake and how much you’ve missed him. Remind him of the good times you two had and the dreams you had for the future. Ensure that you’re kind and sweet all through. If you do this right then you two will leave the venue as a couple once more.

Losing the one you love over a silly mistake or argument is painful. If he shares the same sentiments with you then he is likely to also want you back. Most men avoid making the first move for the fear of being rejected. However, if your break up was minor then chances are that you’ll likely have no need to go through all the four steps. Your initial call will have him ask you back in his life without wasting time.

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One Response to “I want my Ex Back; 4 Easy Steps To Get Him Back”

  1. esther says:

    hello to the world at large, I want to share my testimony to you all which i believe you can still try your best to give a testimony like this, so i was married to mark’ at first will both love each other but short time he started a new behavior which i cannot even explain to any one then i keep it to my self hopping one day he will change for good but he did not change so i was in pain every day, don`t no what to do on till one day when a friend of mine visited me in my office she met me crying then she was asking me what is going on, i tried to be cam but i could not then i open up to her telling me there is a way out which i will do before he left me with my kids. i look up and not knowing what to do then i ask her to tell me. shortly she open up to me and say there is a man called Dr Okole, he is a man of spiritual knowledge, he can do it with in three days then i look and said okay. i will try my best to contact him, four days later, my husband did not come home i called his phone switch off then i try my possible best, i did not hear from him so i began to look for one way for a help so i remember my friend told me about one man called Dr Okole, i quickly run to my friend asking her if she still have Dr Okole contact then she gave it to me that was how i contacted this great man of spiritual knowledge, and he did it for me so quickly, so now i can now control my husband in any thing even i can tell him that i don`t want him outside today he will not. Now i have a happy family.


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